How to Impress a Woman

The feeling that you need to impress a woman usually comes along with another feeling: don't screw this up. Here are some of the signs that a guy is feeling the need to "impress" the woman that he's talking to:

He tries to only say "cool" things, or things that will "impress" the woman.
He acts nervous and stilted during the conversation... sometimes coming across as "formal".
He tries to figure out what the woman wants to hear.
If he says something that the woman doesn't like, he "back-pedals" and tries to change what he said to suit the woman.
He doesn't say anything "risky", doesn't tease the woman, and doesn't do anything to upset her.

Surprisingly enough, those are big turn-offs to women. There are 5 things that you need to remember to impress a female on a first date. Remember to shower, put on fresh deodorant and cologne before going on a date. One of the biggest turn-offs for a woman is when their date smells bad!

Keep it casual. Always try to be polite, but don't come across as being formal. Open the door for her, pull out her chair so she can sit and push her in. If eating at a restaurant, ask her how her food is and if her beverage gets low, make sure to call the waiter/waitress to get her a refill.
Keep talking! I cannot stress this enough. Awkward silences are terrible on dates. Ask her questions about herself, to make the female feel like you genuinely care about her past life. Try not to make it sound like an interrogation though. Ask things like 'So have you ever been outside of the U.S.' or 'So where do you work?' Don't ever ask anything personal that could offend her.
If you had a good time on your first date, ask her if she wants to go back to your place for some coffee. If the date didn't go so well, or you are getting vibes that she isn't interested in you, just offer to drop her off at her house.

On the way to her house/your house, ask her if she enjoyed it. If it sounds like she had a good time, talk about how you enjoyed it and want to know if she would go out with you again sometime.
(Assuming you are dropping her off at her house.) Walk her up to the door. On the way there, talk about how much fun you had with her. Give her a hug good-bye, and walk back to the car.

Never stand at the door waiting to get invited in. Women in general find this very rude. Being rude to your date is just about the worst thing you can do.
(Assuming you invited her over to your house.) Walk her inside and go to the kitchen. Make coffee for the both of you, and talk about yourself and her. Do not make any moves on her.

Most women do not want to have sex on a first date. Before she leaves, remember to get her number and tell her you will call her later in the week about maybe going out again sometime.


How Men Can Impress Women

Practice appropriate chivalrous behavior

Be a gentleman ( gentle + man ) and take care of her needs without prompting. Open doors, offer your coat when she's cold, etc

Be strong, yet not abrasive

Women don't react well to a spineless jellyfish that won't stand up for himself, but be careful not to cross the fine line between confidence and cockiness.

Express and ask about feelings

A woman appreciates a man who is willing to talk about his feelings and is sincerely interested in hers.

If you're consuming alcohol, keep it social and minimal

If you have to be "fortified" with alcohol to be with her, she'll sense you can't relate to her sober.

Exhibit confidence, not jealousy

The reality that she'll stay in contact with friends and acquaintaces she had before she met you shouldn't threaten you.

Be accountable for your words and actions

Be a man of your word and let your actions show intentions and character.

Realize that relationships can't be bought

Keep things simple. While it's nice to be spoiled, little things are often much more appreciated and sincere. Buy her a card, not a car,
Treat her with the same courtesy, respect and enthusiasm in front of your friends, family and colleagues as you do in private.

How to impress real women

How real men can still impress real women with chivalry, masculinity, romance, and sexuality. Gender differences should not be a victim of political correctness.

Men are still faced with the age old question; what do women really want? It seems like all of the rules are changing. Political correctness is everywhere. Does it mean that women don't want men to be men? Does it mean that everyone should be the same? No! Equal but different is the real way REAL women want to be viewed.

Writing as a wife, mom, and career woman, I want men to know how to really impress real women. I want my son to know how to do this when he comes of age. Real women want to be loved, protected, respected, romanced, and desired. We want men to love us for who we are, not for what the fashion magazines say we should be.

So, how do you guys impress a real woman? Treat her like a woman! Tell her how wonderful she looks. Talk to her as if she were an equal. Value her opinions. Compliment her on her figure.

Buy her flowers. Buy her jewelry. Be romantic. Make time just for the two of you.

Why do so called bad boys get so many women? Not because they're bad boys, but because they are good at romancing women. They make a woman feel special. They make a woman feel like she's the only one in the world when she's with them. Believe me, I know. I dated my share of bad boys.

I didn't marry one, though. I married a man who most people would consider to be one of those so called nice guys that finish last. He is much more than a nice guy, however. He has a good job, believes in fidelity, is secure with his own sexuality, and makes me feel like his queen.

What impressed me about him? He spoke directly to me. He spoke to me as if I had an IQ. Still, he let me know he was the man and I was the woman.

He opens doors. He mows the lawn. He also cooks from time to time, and even does laundry once in a while. He takes the time to please

me in bed, which impresses any woman, guys!

So, let's recap, men. How do you impress a REAL woman? Do blur the gender roles. Be a man. Do treat women like they're special. Don't treat them like they're subservient. Do your best to blend the best of the bad boy's techniques, with the strengths of the nice guy's morals. It works.

Don't let chivalry fall victim to political correctness. Treat that real woman your heart desires like a lady, you'll impress her for sure.

How to impress a woman

Some of the nature's wonders have been designed to impress counterparts with opposite sex. How would a male peacock look if it didn't have those beautiful feathers to impress female peacocks? Not too beautiful right? Certainly there are many men out there trying to impress the small group of Indian women out here in the US. But hey, don't give up. Because you are a loyal visitor, we want you to be ahead of others in trying to impress that wonderful girl you have been thinking about. Follow these simple techniques and who knows, may be you can ask her for a date on valentines day!!!

Ask her about herself, her ambitions, her life. Be interested. It's a rare woman who wants to sit around all night listening to a man talk about himself. And the more you try to impress her with your tales of adventure, the less impressed she'll be.
Be presentable. Women are notorious accessorizers, and whether she'll admit it to you or not, you are an accessory. Other women will judge her on her choice. A clean, good-smelling man with well-fitting clothes is a real prize.
Make eye contact. A lot. And smile - in a friendly way. Don't leer.
Be a gentleman. It's a myth that chivalry is dead, right? There are just a few women out there messing it up for the rest of us who really do like to have doors held open for us.
Learn to dance. Women will flock to you - all of them will be impressed.
Be funny without being crude. It's an art.
Compliment her. Notice her shoes or her watch - something that shows you're paying attention. We'll change our clothes six times before we leave the house; it's nice to find someone who appreciates the final choice.
It's hard for a woman not to be impressed with a man who is impressed with her. If you really like her, tell her so. You don't have to make a big deal about it, just let her know you admire her.
Don't stare at her - or other women.
Don't guide her around a room. The hand-on-the-elbow steering technique is very annoying. The hand-on-the-small-of-the-back technique is usually too intimate.
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